My Beautiful Brides, you can invite who ever your heart desires Remembering always that it is your day and you really do not want to see parents hurt by your decision, so think carefully who is on the Guest List..
No one should have an input on your guest list other than your husband to be. I know that it is very helpful for your mom and future mother in law to help you create and even remember a relative that you would like to see.
I always tell my Brides, if you haven't seen them or have been in holidays or family functions in a year; you do not have to invite. Sorry, but they aren't that special if you cant remember that cousins, god-sister or god-brother, Uncle's name. In fact if you haven't seen each other in years, they really do not have to be invited to attend such a joyful occasion. Unless they are important TO YOU! etc.....
People who should be invited are those who really are special to you, who have impacted your life in a truly special way. That person that is with you through the good bad and ugly. The people or person that really doesn't judge you when you have made a silly and dumb mistake through your life.
Those are the people that should share in your "Special Day". You should not have to feel obligated to invite everyone.
Sorry, to those uncles. aunts, cousins, friends, godparents, mailman, store clerk or BOSS, etc....
The last thing you want to do is fight with your husband to be before you wedding on who to invite.
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